HOW DID I PUT MY SELF IN THIS SITUATION??????? i bet that this is a question that every women has made to herself at some point in her life, and not only regarding men or relationships or sex, but about everything, men criticize us exactly because of this, we make a lot of questions, but i think its necessary, not only because it means we care about the subject in matter, but because it doesnt mean we are not sure about the steps that we take, but because we just want to make sure those steps are the right ones.
For me that question came when i realize that the “fling” i thought i was having suddenly developed, under my own eyes, into a pretty serious committed relationship. Before my guy came along i wasnt looking for anything serious, on the contrary, i was in a foreign country with my best friend having fun for a few months, and everything was really cool, we went out we had friends, i made out with a couple of guys, until it just happened, i found my self laying naked in his bed… not only that but it became something pretty often, and it was not only the sex, that was, that is really good, we talked a lot, we had things in common, he was sweet, and it was really comfortable. WTF just happened?! and from that point on, this situation i put my self into was kind of set, i had feelings for him and he did for me, i went to his hometown, met all of his family, that are really nice btw, but , there always has to be a BUT, i was flying back home in a couple of months….
luckily for us it was kind of easy, we were in the same page, i was lucky, so bottom line, after 7 months, and thousands of kilometers in the way we are still together, and it feels really good…..
M.-
